I'm the author of This Really Isn't About You, a memoir about grief, family, immigration, cancer, love, and one very special colonoscopy, among other things. It was published by Picador in August 2018 and longlisted for the 2019 Wellcome Book Prize.

Right now, I’m working on a novel. I write an occasional newsletter (it’s free). UK Vogue said it “pops up in your inbox like lucid dreaming.



I write for lots of different publications, and I also have a 9-5 in tech — I think it’s important for creatives to admit they have day jobs.

Want me to write for you, appear on your podcast, or speak at your event? Let’s chat.